Friday, November 03, 2006
Life and Death
Charles Dickens opening line in A Tale of Two Cities is "It was the best of times, it was the worst of times." Ruth and I were able to rejoice in the birth of Dominique Baggett in July of this year. We held her and rocked her and were able to rejoice in being able to see her 18 month old brother react to his new sister. Also Ruth and I were able to celebrate our 35th wedding anniversary in France but our holiday trip was tempered by the knowlege that my sister Laveena was dying. She died while we were in France and we remembered her life on Thanksgiving day in Saskatoon. But the worst shock was the death of Jennifer's baby. When she went to the hospital for the delivery Nov. 1, they could find no heartbeat. The baby was born natually the next day about 1:00. John and Jennifer named him Gordon Hector Wallace after both of their Grandfathers. The baby was 10 pounds 3 ounces and was perfectly formed. There is a Chinese proverb that says that there is no house that doesn't have its hush. We certainly know what that means. Once again we are reminded that this life is just a passing shadow and there is a much better one to look forward to. We are also reminded to appreciate all the more how fragile life is and that we need to be kind and loving and remember what is really important in our everyday living.
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17 comments:
Very well said. Thanks.
We wish we could be there with you all now.
I agree, well said. As Tara & I are in our own time of expectation for our second child we were so saddened to hear this news - our hearts ache for your family. Please know our thoughts and prayers are for John & Jennifer right now.
Tim & Tara McMillan
Our hearts ache for all of you Ian. Our family experienced a similar situation when my sister and husband lost their first baby at full term. Please know we care and that we remember how devastating it is to have the hopes and dreams of a new life gone. Interesting that we are reading 'Second Guessing God' right now - I did quite a bit of questioning Him when my sister lost her baby. Love from LaWanda
Your family is constantly in my thoughts and prayers since we heard the sad news. Let us know if we can do anything to help out.
Please pass along my love to Jenn and her husband - my heart is just aching for you all from afar...what a shock. I'm so sorry...I have been in constant prayer for her and all of you since I heard this terrible news yesterday. Much love, Bonnie (McM) Baxter
It was good of you to express the grief that we all feel. Our hearts are heavy too and our family stands with you at this time.
That was from the Medicine Hat, Lethbridge and Swift Current MacLeods
Yes very well said ian, Thanks for sharing! We love your family very much.
Sharon(&Bob)
I thought I'd pass this e-mail excerpt on to you.
Sharon
"Give my love and prayers to Jennifer and her family.
Allen"(Close)
Hi Ian: My heart is heavy thinking of Jenn and John, and both families. You have all been in my prayers each day.
Heather
Those sad news hit me hard over here in Northern Ireland and my heart is aching with Jenn and John all day long. There are no words to express what you are all going thru.
You know that I pray and think of you all during those hard times. If I can do anything, though I am far away, let me know.
With Love
Andrea
We are thinking of Jenn, John and all of your family at this time. Know that you are in our prayers during this difficult time.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time as they have been all year. nothing I can think of seems worth saying yet I feel I must say something.
We love you and treasure you and hold your family before our GOD in prayer daily.
Andrew
Please let John and Jennifer know they are in our prayers at this time. We are so very sorry for your loss.
In Him,
Cyrus and Kristi(Close)Crook
I wish I had words of comfort, but nothing prepares you for these kind of events. Our prayers are for Jennifer & John, and the rest of the family.
Terrel and I would like to give your whole family our prayers and support as you all did 17 years ago when we lost our baby girl Rachel.It is hard to believe that much time has gone by but I remember it like it was yesterday. Aunt Mary's advice to us I would like to pass on to Jennifer and John, "you will survive this". It may not feel like it right now but you will. We went on to have 4 healthy children and you will too (even though it may seem too soon to think about that)My mom would like send her thoughts to You and Ruth because it is easy for the grandparents to get forgotten.
All your love Kathy,Terrel and family
Your whole family is in our thoughts and prayers, as you grieve this very difficult loss. May you find strength, peace and the healing you need in God.
Angela's highschool friend Jeannette Moore
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